One year in
Denmark
by Nabeel
Petersen (YFU exchange student 2001)
My
exchange year took me to Denmark in 2001. As most exchange
students will agree, it was probably one of the best years
of my life. I cannot isolate anything specific about my
exchange experience that made it as memorable as it is;
it was reather the entire package:
traveling alone at such an early age, living with a completely
new family, new siblings, new school, a completely different
country and meeting other exchange students, etc.
I lived on the
Danish island called Fyn with the family Anderson. So my
exchange year presented me with another mother, father,
an older sister and brother and two dogs. I attended a school
called Vestfyns Gymnasium which was completely different
to my South African schooling in terms of the way it was
run, school attire and regulations, etc. Upon arrival in
Denmark alone I encountered my first experience of culture
shock. For one, there were infinite numbers of bicycles,
and secondly, I felt like I was the only “black”
person around which took some getting used to. The first
three months of my life in Denmark, at times, were very
challenging because of language, cultural and racial barriers.
However, as I grew more accustomed to this foreign way of
life and learnt the Danish language, these barriers appeared
to disintegrate. Thinking about my Danish life it is obvious
that it was not only me being affected by my experiences;
my being there, as a South African, deconstructed
Danish peoples' notions and stereotypes of South Africa.
Lastly
I want to say: I would do it all again if possible.